Ashley's Story

Dad was diagnosed with Parkinson's seven years ago. In the beginning, it was manageable — a tremor, some stiffness. But the condition does not stand still. These days, he needs help with things he used to do without thinking: buttoning a shirt, cutting food, getting in and out of the bath.

I work full-time as a warehouse supervisor in Luton, and caring happens around the edges. Early mornings before my shift. Evenings after work. Weekends spent at appointments. My employer has been understanding, but I know I am running on empty most days.

The working carers group at Carers in Luton was a revelation. I did not know there were other people doing exactly what I do — holding down a job while holding up a parent. The group gave me practical advice about flexible working rights and Carer's Leave, which I did not even know existed.